Life, Relationships at a Crossroads? Relax..You Have Time...

Hello Everyone,

I’ve been getting a lot of calls lately from folks feeling as if they are at an urgent crossroads in life. Many feel their relationships are facing critical challenges.  Others think they should make big changes in order to make their life better, but they don’t exactly know what those changes should be.

To that I am responding, “Relax. You needn’t know the whole answer to your life’s challenges right now.  Allow clear direction to be revealed to you over time.”

 That’s because as critical and urgent as matters and relationships might seem now, they probably aren’t in their final stages. In fact, much of what we are working on now might take weeks, if not months to resolve. 

It is intense right now.  Planetary aspects are urging us to express even more of our own needs and preferences while we are also learning to be even more accountable and mature in our relationships.  The universe is giving us time to learn this, if we care to.

Astrological vibes over the coming few weeks are encouraging most of us to try something new, especially in our relationships. This is a period wherein we might get some remarkable results from approaching life and love from our wiser, more expanded consciousness.

Perhaps apply loving to an issue that has been hurting. Or genuinely forgive yourself and another for something you feel “wronged” about. Approached that way, life and relationships could transform remarkably over the coming week(s) and month. 

Yep – this can be a volatile few weeks ahead.

Use the volatility to find the biggest place in your heart and your consciousness to take things up a notch.  

Here’s where your Sun Sign/ Rising Sign might seem to be at a critical juncture. Matters could be changing in a big way here.  Apply your “Best Self” to matters here and see how they can transform in amazing ways.  And Give it time…  

Aries:  You may be hitting a critical juncture with partners.  This can be a time when you are bringing a new energy of “you” to your closest relationships.  You might also be bringing fresh new approaches to old issues. Perhaps you are coming to a new dynamic in your marriage or attempting an important culmination with a business partner.  Keep in mind that matters might not be as “done” in relationships as they seem to be.  Allow yourself the gift of time to try new strategies and let them unfold.

Taurus: You might be at a critical juncture in your work relationships.  This could be a time when you become more aware of the kind of work or service that rewards you. Look to see who is genuinely on your support team.  Try some new strategies with problematic relationships to see if you can redeem them. Allow yourself to release activities rooted in obligations or attempts to just make others happy, and do more of what (and who!) makes you happy and healthy.

Gemini:  You may be feeling at a critical juncture in your Friendships and Love Relationships. Relationships of all sorts might be more active now, making your life exciting and socially demanding. It’s a terrific time to evaluate if the balance between your love life and social life still works and satisfies you - and others. You might be learning something rich and enduring about what love truly is. 

Cancer: You might feel at a critical juncture in your Home and Career life.  It might be time to strike a new balance between your personal and professional needs and goals. This is also a good time to evaluate if you are conducting your family and intimate relationships in a way that reflects what you genuinely want.  Let yourself experiment.  Take the time to work things out in a way that genuinely works for you and those you dearly love. 

Leo: You might feel at a critical Juncture in matters that have to do with Contracts, Communications, Travel or Education.   Check your contracts and recent decisions to make sure everyone – including you - is on board and carrying through as promised.  This can be a very exciting time when all kinds of relationships make life more intriguing.

Virgo: You might feel at a critical juncture in matters involving finances.  Other people might be playing significant roles in your cash flow now, or promising to bring new financial opportunities to you.  That’s great. But there might be more to the story than meets the eye. Remain clear and discerning in your arrangements with others - financial and otherwise - to insure they are doing what they say they would and reflecting your wishes. Money is coming, but delays might pop up. So keep yourself relaxed by not spending it until you’ve got it.

Libra: You may be feeling at a critical juncture in your relationships right now.  But even more at a critical juncture is your relationship with your Self.  How are you doing with you? Are you making self-honoring decisions?  Are you being as fair to yourself as you are to others? This is a terrific time to bring a fresh new attitude of self-care to your life. It’s also a great time to apply fresh approaches to your alliances – or enjoy fresh new alliances all together. Matters might not be as “done” between you and others as they seem. Allow yourself the gift of time to try new strategies and see where they take you.

Scorpio: You might be feeling at critical juncture in your psyche and your work. You could be coming more aware of the emotional, spiritual and financial fruits of your labors and efforts – or the lack there of. It’s a terrific time to release anything you have been doing just to keep others happy- or find a way to actually enjoy it for yourself.  This is a healing time for you.  If past hurts should surface, apply loving and forgiveness so you can move on. Reflect upon who and what really nurtures and fills you.  Do more of what (and who!) makes you happy and healthy.  

Sagittarius: You may be feeling at a critical juncture in your Friendships and Love Relationships. It’s a terrific time to experiment with new approaches towards your loved ones and friends. You social life can be quite active and dynamic over the coming months – enjoy yourself!  Bring out your best. You might be learning something rich and enduring about what friendship and love truly is.

Capricorn: You might feel at a critical juncture between your Home and Career life.  It might be time to strike a new balance between your personal and professional needs and goals. This is a good time to evaluate if you are conducting your worldly relationships and obligations in a way that reflects what you genuinely want.  Take the time to work things out with others, as relationships can be a key to your success now. Learn something new about how to win friends and influence people.

Aquarius: You might feel at a critical Juncture in matters that have to do with Contracts, Communications, Travel or Education.  Check your contracts and recent decisions to make sure everyone – including you - is on board and carrying through as promised.   Legal Dynamics might pop up as well. Expand your horizons with a new class or an intriguing trip.  This can be a very exciting time filled with all sorts of relationships.

Pisces: You might feel a critical juncture in matters involving finances, sex, and/or another’s crisis. Throughout it all, you are discovering even better ways to take excellent care of yourself as you are intimate and helpful to others. Other people might be playing a significant role in your finances and resources now. Be discerning and insure everyone is doing what they say they will.  (Including you) Be fair to others, but be fair to you, too. Money is coming! But since it could be delayed, you might not want to spend it until you’ve actually got it.

This Astrologer Adores you!

Love, Phyllis

* Astrology’s Keys To Hot Romance: How to find True Compatibility and the One Who’s Right For You can really help you make the most of your relationships! It reveals even deeper relationship secrets of the stars and offers detailed, step-by-step techniques for not only finding, but also attracting, keeping—and coping with—the love of our lives. You’ll also get a detailed profile of how your sign matches up with every other sign and how to best make all of your relationships flourish.

Click here to view & buy Phyllis's books!

You’re Every Sign: Using Astrology’s Keys to Create Success, Love and Happiness describes everything you need to know about the personality traits, gifts, interests, psychology and even the spirituality of every sign of the zodiac. You’re Every Sign! also provides you with specific ways to benefit from your sign in order to achieve your life’s mission and to live the most satisfying life possible. You’ll discover things about yourself and others that you won’t find in any other astrology books

What Kind of Lover is Your Valentine?

Hello Everyone,

For a little Valentine’s Day fun go ahead and ask: “What’s Your Sign?” It’s a great way to instantly size up what kind of a Lover someone might be!  Astrology offers incredible insights into what your partner wants, needs and can give you in love.* 

In celebration of Valentine’s Day here’s a quick Astro-Guide to your Valentine’s Way of Love. 

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The Aries Lover: 

Aries in love is an immediate, passionate affair.  If Aries in into you, their motto is
 “Why wait until later when I’m attracted to you right now?”  They’ll launch head first into winning your attention and admiration. Aries are invigorated by the chase and thrive on conquering any obstacles that stand in the way of love’s promise.   You needn’t be an easy catch for Aries, but forget about complex games.

When Aries loves you, they’ll put you on a pedestal and do whatever it takes to make you happy. What makes them happy? Sexual Chemistry! Sexuality is one cornerstone of Aries’ attraction and they are enthusiastic, super physical, give-it-all lovers.  Do they welcome the same adventurousness in return?  Oh Yeah!

The Taurus Lover:

Courtship with a Taurus is an unhurried affair. Even if a Taurus is crazy about you, chances are they will still take their time to get to know you, asking themselves, “Can she be trusted?” or “Is he reliable?”  After all, Taurus wants to be assured that if they make the investment of their heart, it will not be squandered.  In all matters of love with Taurus, stick to the motto “Enjoy it. Don’t rush it.”

When Taurus does allow love in, they blossom.  Romance gives full rein to their gentle, sensual nature.  Taurus’ affection is consistent and their sensuality is rich and lingering.  Plus, Taurus’s loyalty and integrity provide an assuredness that their beloved can count on and relax in, knowing that when Taurus commits, it’s for sure.

The Gemini Lover:

The Gemini lover is quite the delightful charmer! Geminis know how to make loving fun.  Easy winkers, master flirters, and smooth operators, Geminis make courtship an exciting adventure. Geminis’ motto in all matters of love, from courtship to intimacy is “Variety is the Spice of Life.”  They will surprise you in countless ways. And they love to be surprised as well! 

Geminis especially adore the intoxicating early stage of love.  Intensely curious people, they enjoy the initial novelty of getting to know you. Remember: Geminis fall in love with their brains first.  Make them use theirs.  Give them something to think about and wonder about you. Physical seduction certainly can attract Gemini’s attention.  But without backing it up with a strong intellectual connection, physical attractions will burn out quickly.  Words of love are often as important to Gemini as the real thing!

The Cancer Lover:

 Cancers are tender, private, intimate, and nurturing lovers. And they are so full of surprising moods and expressions that you may feel as if you have many lovers rolled up in one!  Sometimes Cancer will be a shy, gentle, dreamy lover who fluidly yields to your every request and need.  Other times Cancer is a feisty assertive paramour who enjoys being attended to and indulged.  A Cancer lover will comfort, reassure and take care of you like few others.  They’ll strive to make you feel understood and deeply touched. 

And don’t worry about your Cancer lover straying.  They understand the meaning of commitment and they cherish having someone to commit to.  Even with their feelings being as changeable as the night sky, Cancer’s loyalty is as constant as the North Star.

The Leo Lover:

Leos are Master Romancers!  They show their love with bursting drama, exuberant creativity, and unbelievable seductiveness. Romance brings out the very best of Leo’s hearts and their generous loving nature.  They bask in the attentiveness, the declarations of adoration and the affection romance offers. 

Leos have an absolutely captivating way of showing love.  They unabashedly use every asset they’ve got to make loving them an exquisite and delightful experience.  Their heartfelt declarations of how fabulous you are along with the shower of generous gifts they’ll  lavish on you will show how much you mean to Leo .  Do Leos cherish being treated with the same type of attentive indulgence? You Betcha!

The Virgo Lover:

It can take a bit of effort to win the Virgo lover over.  First they have to sort out whether they like you, Then they have to find time to fit you into their busy schedules.  (Work is often your Virgo’s first love). But once a Virgo lets themselves love they become a gentle, interesting, involved lover. Virgos have a way of extending a quiet, yet endearing appreciation for their beloved.  It’s as if they say, “I’ve looked all over the world, and you, my precious one, are the most perfect jewel of all!”

Virgos treat their lover with respect and an esteemed deference.  Virgos gracefully, willingly become their beloved’s humble servant ready to make any wish their command.  They’ll extend their motto of “If something is worth doing- it’s worth being done perfectly” to all manner of loving you.   

The Libra Lover:

The Libra lover will sweep you off your feet like no other! Romance is what Libras live for and what they devote themselves to wholeheartedly.  Libras are masterful at amorous love and use everything they’ve got to make it a beautiful success.  Beauty, witty conversation, music, and impressing your friends are all part of Libra’s love offering. Everything you do with Libra will be infused with elegance and charm.

Libras go to great lengths to create a romantic scene, but they’ll do so subtly, so as not to seem off balance, even when they are nearly falling over in love. Always, Libra’s courtship is neither too aggressive nor too passive.  They are expressive of their feelings, but rarely go overboard.  Do they enjoy the same rhythm of attention and space from you?  Oh, yes! Let Libra know you want them, but don’t smother them…give them space to miss you!

The Scorpio Lover:

Scorpio’s rich sexuality and urge for intimacy thrives when they have a lover to devote themselves to wholeheartedly. They love savoring the lusty desires, sensual pleasures, and heady passions that courtship stirs in them.  And they are masterful at igniting the same in their partners. 

 Scorpio will pursue someone who entices them, or holds some sort of mystery or power that they relish. They are intensely desirous and lusty.  Give them something in yourself to desire and lust after.  Be powerful. They like that.

Seduction is the elixir of life for Scorpio.  Never rush a Scorpio’s pleasure by making it too easy for them to capture you. Enjoy how they draw you ever closer, bit by bit.  As Scorpio works to woo you, they will reveal the emotional and physical depth they are capable of. Don’t shortchange the excitement of the build-up…Scorpio will take their time in revealing all of themselves to you and (secretly) enjoy you doing the same.

The Sagittarius Lover:

The Sagittarian lover is extremely passionate, full of excitement, and, of course, brimming with adventure.  Sagittarians love all the fireworks of romance and the glorious hopefulness of courtship. Sagittarians in love are spellbound and intoxicated, and desire to consume their beloved.  Never ones to subtly demonstrate their affections, Sagittarians make loving an all-out extravaganza.

Sagittarians will treat you like their “good buddy” and include you on their many adventures.  When wooing you, they’ll put you on a pedestal and see you for the God or Goddess you are! They’ll be full of compliments, declarations of devotion, thoughtful gestures, and chivalrous actions that’ll make you swirl with excitement.  Do they appreciate being treating with the same type of go-for-it-gusto? Yeah, Baby!

The Capricorn Lover:

Capricorns pursue love the same way they pursue every other important endeavor – with determination, planning, and confidence they’ll succeed.  Although it might take a while for Capricorn’s  heart to awaken, when their interest is finally piqued, they’ll stop at nothing to win your love and attention.  Capricorn will pull out all the stops to impress you, entice you, and convince you that they are the only one for you. 

You won’t find your Capricorn shouting form the mountaintop that they love you, but you will be wooed by their subtle deeds of affections: sideways glances, stolen kisses and favors that let you know there is something special between the two of you. They will take you to the best places and treat you with respect and surprising gentleness. Then, when you are alone: The fireworks begin!

The Aquarius Lover:

As impersonal and “friendship-oriented” as Aquarians can be, when they’re in love, a unique intimacy and softness spring out of them, which communicates, “You are special and sacred to me.”  But, nevertheless, Aquarians are wired differently than most people in that friendship is their ultimate bottom line.  Aquarians need to feel a sense of camaraderie with lovers even more than the typical swooning, passionate, intoxicating effects of romantic love. Friendship is the elixir of life to Aquarians, and they celebrate it in their beloved. 

Aquarians are attracted through their minds: Progressive ideas and talks of ideals awakens their hearts and draws them closer.  Physical attraction is great for a moment, but unless you capture Aquarians’ mental curiosity, it won’t hold them.   How do you hold Aquarian’s curiosity? Be your unique self- different than anyone else. 

The Pisces Lover:

 Pisces is the Original Hopeless Romantic! Nothing captivates Pisces more than romantic love.  After all, what better way to merge with someone than through beating hearts?   When love is in the air, Pisces’ gentle caring, attentiveness, compassion and yielding sexuality all blossom and flourish.  Romantic love is what Pisces most loves sacrificing themselves to and they devote themselves to their lover hook, line and sinker!

Fantasies play a huge part in Pisces’ romantic relationships as they love losing themselves in dreams and anticipations about what magic will unfold when they and their beloved meet in ecstatic union.  Give them something to imagine and dream about with you! Or, since Pisces love being the heroic rescuer, you might woo their heart by giving them something about you they could rescue.  Would they like the same offer of rescue from you? Oh, Yes!

* Astrology’s Keys To Hot Romance: How to find True Compatibility and the One Who’s Right For You can really help you make the most of your relationships! It reveals even deeper relationship secrets of the stars and offers detailed, step-by-step techniques for not only finding, but also attracting, keeping—and coping with—the love of our lives. You’ll also get a detailed profile of how your sign matches up with every other sign and how to best make all of your relationships flourish.

Click here to view & buy Phyllis's books!

You’re Every Sign: Using Astrology’s Keys to Create Success, Love and Happiness describes everything you need to know about the personality traits, gifts, interests, psychology and even the spirituality of every sign of the zodiac. You’re Every Sign! also provides you with specific ways to benefit from your sign in order to achieve your life’s mission and to live the most satisfying life possible. You’ll discover things about yourself and others that you won’t find in any other astrology books